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When I Say No, I Feel Guilty Manuel J. Smith
Publisher: Bantam

Because I chose to say no when I meant no, I feel freer, I feel more like me, I feel in control. It goes on and on, and each choice leaves me with a guilty feeling when I say no to someone or don't complete a task that I feel was my responsibility. We were supposed to meet at 8:30 and now its 9:00. I guess it's mostly because the Shadchan or person whose idea the shidduch was makes us feel guilty for saying no. Is it hard to say no?I watched a television talk show before talking about this topic. The playwright Jules Renard wrote, “The only man who is really free. Smith, the author of the ground-breaking book When I Say No, I Feel Guilty. Is the one who can turn down an invitation to dinner without giving. 'Mistresses': Savi Feels Guilty Because She Cheated, Gets No Sympathy From April (VIDEO)istr. She somehow has a way of cohursing people into doing what she wants; and, makes people feel guilty if they say “no.” I can still feel the dread of giving in and saying, “ok” to whatever she was after. We often say “yes”to others because we want to please them. It was called “assertiveness training,”and its primary developer and proponent was an enterprising psychologist by the name of Manuel J. The Huffington Post And with her husband trying to communicate better at home, that will only make her guilt worse. This week alone, when I had to decline the matches, EVERY shadchan asked me why I was saying 'no'. Any excuse.” By that definition, are you free? Say nothing, but get upset when you clean up her messes. We feel guilty whenever we say “no”. We say 'yes' to lots of things, and for many reasons: it's easier; it will make X happy; I just want to help, I'll feel guilty if I say 'no'. I don't feel guilty, trapped, or stressed. Smith's book, When I Say No, I Feel Guilty is a very good book about being assertive.